Vacation Then and Now
Lou and I left yesterday for a short cruise to celebrate his parents’ 45th wedding anniversary. Lou and I, his sister Debi and Rich, and Mom and Dad – no kids. Gavin ran out the door with a huge grin as we pulled away, turning to give us a butt shake. I had mixed emotions knowing how happy he was to see us go!! Sometimes I worry that he was passed around so much as a baby that he’s a natural independent and I tear up over visions of him moving halfway around the world someday. But then I remember kissing him goodnight and yelling up to him, “I love you more!” as he’s heading up the stairs, only for him to run back down to say sternly, “Let’s not argue about this right now, Mommy. I love YOU more!” Then we play a game where whoever says it last loves the other person more, and I make sure we end at the same time. “It’s a tie! I guess we both love each other the same.” He needs me J . Off we we...