Tuesday, June 14, 2016

When an itch is more than an itch.

Physically, I have been feeling great despite my rapid weight gain :)  Every day has been so busy I barely have time to think.  But whenever I get in the car to drive, I am alone with my grief and feeling so terribly sad lately.  Like an itch that can’t be scratched, it is always there, lingering underneath my skin no matter how happy I truly am on the surface. 

I think about how, although the idea of having another baby has infused a lot of happiness and anticipation into our lives, the truth remains that Ty’s absence is still so tremendously present.  I don’t know what I was expecting to happen, but nothing has changed, not even one bit.  I miss him.  This wasn’t supposed to be my life.  And I would give anything to have HIM back.  It is all I really want. 

Yesterday was an emotional afternoon.  I cried driving home from work.  I was wondering what my life would look like if he was still here.  Would he be in a big boy wheelchair with a joystick controller?  Would his speech still be so weak?  Or would we have triumphant days at physical therapy – making baby steps toward getting him back on his feet.  How would he be with Gavin and vice versa?  Would we still be welcoming a new baby into our home?  Then I think about what our life should look like.  Our life where cancer never showed it’s ugly face.  Where Ty is running strong on the soccer field and playing catch with his little brother outside.  It was all so incredibly heartbreaking to imagine.  

I hosted a Mess Fest meeting at the TLC office later last night.  We met with GiantKids, another nonprofit in the area, to discuss how we are working together to make it an incredible experience for the children in attendance who have battled/are battling cancer and other life-threatening illnesses.  I get so excited planning this event, because it is just so magical.  We were talking through the various activities planned and sharing exciting new ideas. 

Toward the end of the meeting I started scratching my inner wrist.  It was just a bit irritated and I was mindlessly rubbing it to sooth the itch.  I thought I might be feeling bumps, so I quietly hoped it wasn’t some type of rash forming and we ended the meeting shortly thereafter.  In the car I started scratching furiously, turned on the light and took a good look at my wrist.  I then realized that the itch was isolated to my “Thank You” tattoo.  In fact, the letters – the large T Y specifically – were slightly swollen and puffy so you could feel the outline of the letters if you rubbed your fingers against it. 


HOW CRAZY IS THAT?   I was in complete awe over it.  His name - right there in front of me.  I have never received a more obvious and miraculous sign from my boy than this.  It has NEVER happened before, my tattoo never bothered me for a second and I’ve had it for almost 3 years.  The slight swelling went away soon afterward.  It didn’t cause any discomfort… he just needed to get my attention and let me know that he is with me.   

You just have to believe there is something so much bigger than this life.  And whatever it is, it is pretty amazing.  


12 comments:

  1. So glad you got another reminder from Ty that he is ALWAYS with you and he Thanks You for all you have done and are doing for him, in his name....Jean <3

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  2. Lisa.reda@comcast.netJune 15, 2016 at 12:08 AM

    Love u. Always here

    Lisa

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  3. That is so cool. Congratulations on your pregnancy. That news makes me so happy for you.

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  4. I am so happy you got another reminder, what an amazing tattoo to have, so so special and really gave me goosebumps, you are able to have those days Cindyxxx

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  5. Congrats on the new baby. Awesome that Ty sends you those reminders to let you know he is always with you.

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  6. Hi Cindy, can you please explain what you mean? I don't understand what you see. :)

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  7. I haven't been on here in a while but I think of your family often. I went to visit my sunflowers yesterday and I had such strong thoughts of you and a new baby! I'm so happy to read that you are having another child. congrats! Much love to all of you!

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  8. " And whatever it is, it is pretty amazing.". Good! I like it.
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    I'm working in the thay man hinh xiaomi. It's amazing

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  9. "You just have to believe there is something so much bigger than this life. And whatever it is, it is pretty amazing". I'll remember it. Thanks. Please visit me at cong ty nha xinh sai gon

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  10. Life with Ty would have been magical. Life with Ty despite all the difficulties was magical because he was in it and made it so much more perfect. I would have wished for you to have a different outcomes. But Ty in his usual fashion is sending you his love and reminder that he is with you he is you and he is everywhere.
    Missing you baby boy.

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