tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post2023280143911097792..comments2023-12-25T19:17:35.122-05:00Comments on Ty Louis Campbell - our little fighter: Weekend updateCindy Campbellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04723218098733495295noreply@blogger.comBlogger57125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-11246176563637123482012-11-25T14:19:45.797-05:002012-11-25T14:19:45.797-05:00My 3 year old is never without one of his costumes...My 3 year old is never without one of his costumes.. the only time he isn't wearing one is when he is in preschool, and even then, he insists on wearing his brother's spiderman pj top. I think of Ty often when I watch my son walking down the aisles of a supermarket, or waiting in line with me at the post office, dressed as a super hero from head to toe and acting like it's the most normal thing in the world. lol God bless little boys. Every last one of them :)jtlc347https://www.blogger.com/profile/14869344012297008979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-1850270560395244782012-11-20T10:21:42.348-05:002012-11-20T10:21:42.348-05:00That is such a beautiful truth. They were wonderfu...That is such a beautiful truth. They were wonderful sentiments you shared with CIndy and they touched my heart as well. Thank you.Geraldine Sargentnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-82947192045298748772012-11-20T01:11:55.246-05:002012-11-20T01:11:55.246-05:00The last time we posted about a week ago, I mentio...The last time we posted about a week ago, I mentioned that as I was typing, I was watching a movie and a ladybug crawled across the mans desk in the movie. I thought, "how ironic." Then last night I was about to get Patrick whose 5yrs old ready for bed in his bunk bed and he yelled to me, "daddy, there's a bug on my window." I had the window open a little for some cold air to come in and I looked and there was a ladybug on the screen. I couldn't believe this was twice in one week. We always say a prair for Ty before bed like we always have and I said to Patrick, "it's okay, it's only a ladybug and maybe it's Ty's way of saying hello and I'm okay." It was really nice. I mean, how often do you find 2 ladybugs in 1 week, in the winter time? It's very rare. So we believe this was Ty saying he's here and he's doing good. We wanted to share that with Cindy and Lou. We're always thinking of Ty too.....=)Devonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08127846435888839592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-39898461009694042602012-11-20T00:34:11.311-05:002012-11-20T00:34:11.311-05:00You will never forget any single detail of Ty. I ...You will never forget any single detail of Ty. I understand that fear, that worry, but it won't happen. He is you and you are him. The connection the two of you had and still have transcends anything physical. Because of that, when you need to remember his perfect little pinky toe nails, that will be there. When you need to remember hearing him say I wub you, that will be there. The scary part is that it might not be there exactly when you want to conjure it up, but I promise, it is there - and when you truly need it the most, it will not hide from you.<br /><br />I am glad you had a fun and normal weekend with friends and Lou and Gavin. I just can't imagine how hard it is to go forward as you need to for Gavin when all you want to do is go backward for Ty. I wish there was something more that I could do to help besides offer supportive words and encouragement. It's what I have, though, so I will continue to do so and to pray for you all to find peace in this time of adjustment.<br /><br />Love to you all,<br />LoriLDswimshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16047339088972152520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-40830989614258316252012-11-19T22:49:57.090-05:002012-11-19T22:49:57.090-05:00Cindy, your strength and faith amazes me. I wish I...Cindy, your strength and faith amazes me. I wish I had an ounce of it. You are simply amazing! XoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-29825535963623092822012-11-19T21:51:17.164-05:002012-11-19T21:51:17.164-05:00When I look at that beautiful angelic baby picture...When I look at that beautiful angelic baby picture I think of a saying I heard. Sometimes our most important lessons come to us in the tinest bundles. He was given the gift of a perfect spirit by God. God chose you and Lou to be the parents of one of his Angels. And we are all blessed to have had him among us. And for you to share this angel with us. Thank you for that. He was too good for this Earth...I really truly believe that.jessica dnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-82298598871752439582012-11-19T21:34:32.182-05:002012-11-19T21:34:32.182-05:00Hi Cindy,
Your son Ty has touched my heart in such...Hi Cindy,<br />Your son Ty has touched my heart in such a deep and blessed way. I am so thankful that you have shared both the painful and joyful experiences that you have felt during this journey of childhood cancer. Your writing is so eloquent and heartfelt, I cry each time I read your blog. I cannot imagine how much pain that you and Lou are enduring, each day must be such a challenge. You have truly helped me to put my life into perspective. I hug my 5 year old and 14 year old boys just a little harder now.<br /> I was in my art studio today and literally out of nowhere, a ladybug landed on my drafting table. I said hello to Ty and thanked him for being the sweetest angel, then I suggested that he make his way to his mommy to make her smile. One last note, I heard this stunning song today which made me think of Ty, by Grace Potter and the Nocturnals, "Stars". Perhaps you have heard it. <br />Sending you Blessings and Strength,<br />ErinAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-35892693651061787992012-11-19T19:36:12.795-05:002012-11-19T19:36:12.795-05:00Those eyes!! So unbelievably gorgeous!Those eyes!! So unbelievably gorgeous!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-70949369690631572012012-11-19T18:14:10.042-05:002012-11-19T18:14:10.042-05:00Hi Cindy, I saw you in the grocery store with Gavi...Hi Cindy, I saw you in the grocery store with Gavin this evening. He is adorable. I so wanted to approach you but I didn't want to invade your privacy. Think about you and your family often. Maybe next time ill get up the nerve to say hello. Carlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17903373953589712745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-89247385352496519772012-11-19T17:34:08.412-05:002012-11-19T17:34:08.412-05:00How does a stranger love and think about a family ...How does a stranger love and think about a family whom she doesnt know. I DO. It is real and true... you and your story has impacted me in so many ways. i love you and i know that sounds crazy but i do. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-81065840568224752892012-11-19T17:08:35.208-05:002012-11-19T17:08:35.208-05:00Definitely Ty!Definitely Ty!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-75940806510819350692012-11-19T17:03:34.294-05:002012-11-19T17:03:34.294-05:00Hi Cindy.. I continue to love reading your blogs. ...Hi Cindy.. I continue to love reading your blogs. I wait for your updates to see how you and your family are doing. Thank you for keeping us close to your heart and your family. Last week I went through each and every blog of yours for the past 2 years. I cried and smiled and fell in love with Ty all over again. Though I have 2 kids of my own, I just cannot imagine the pain you must be going through but your writings are so poigant and beautiful and convey your pain so vividly. I know you will never be the same again, but I will keep praying that you always have beautiful memories of Ty. Prayers and blessings for you and your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-73857056549454003722012-11-19T16:44:08.923-05:002012-11-19T16:44:08.923-05:00That has to be the most beautiful baby picture I h...That has to be the most beautiful baby picture I have ever seen. No way did that gorgeous baby die of cancer. It just doesn't seem possible. Ty's strength and beauty continues to inspire me every day. His life makes me want to try and be a better person. Sending you so much love. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-83460130397162379522012-11-19T16:41:46.942-05:002012-11-19T16:41:46.942-05:00Cindy & Lou,
You have this magical way with ...Cindy & Lou, <br /><br />You have this magical way with words and just sitting here reading, and crying always makes me put things back into perspective. The fact that I am stressed with life, now means nothing. I am thankful for all I have, and I am grateful for getting to know your family. To be honest with you, I still can't believe Ty is gone. <br /><br />I don't think you guys will ever be the same again. He was such an incredible boy who opened the hearts of so many people and changed their lives! I think about Ty everyday. I am so sorry that he is gone. I know that you will spend the rest of your life changing the fate of other kids with Cancer. Words cannot describe how amazing you are Cindy. You and Lou are my heroes. My life is forever changed. . .<br /><br />I'm happy you had a nice weekend and Gavin enjoyed himself. Wow, he really has turned into the little super-hero, hasn't he. Perhaps he feels close to Ty with his super-hero's or it is quite possible that he sees Ty. I know that may sound crazy, but maybe they play together. Like you have said, you knew Ty saw angels, maybe Gavin sees his brother. . .<br /><br />(((Hugs)))<br />Always thinking about you! <br /><br />Joy Marielle<br />Baltimore, MD Joy Mariellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10063448803167339063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-63402640976231910842012-11-19T15:14:18.156-05:002012-11-19T15:14:18.156-05:00I love the picture of Ty -- what a beautiful baby....I love the picture of Ty -- what a beautiful baby.lmg73https://www.blogger.com/profile/09944757327602314308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-55516989955089710662012-11-19T14:02:30.991-05:002012-11-19T14:02:30.991-05:00Cindy,
Everything you are feeling is perfectly n...Cindy, <br />Everything you are feeling is perfectly normal and the slow process of grief. I wake up so many times during the night and pray for you, Lou & Gavin. I pray God will heal the broken hearts you have, but I know any thing that is healed, always has a scar and that remanins to remind us of our journey. Ty will always be with you and his memories will remain forever. So each day when you cry, remember the song, " Jesus said come to the waters, stand by my side I know you are thirsty, you won't be denied. I felt every tear drop, when in darkness you cried and strove to remind you, for those tears I died". Always in my prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-48472898731936946882012-11-19T13:58:05.784-05:002012-11-19T13:58:05.784-05:00Thinking of you all as always. Hugs from NC.Thinking of you all as always. Hugs from NC.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03220450969630944498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-60716769800287765172012-11-19T13:30:47.428-05:002012-11-19T13:30:47.428-05:00*spoken of *spoken of Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09321670738445567061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-75387741403983406672012-11-19T13:30:08.235-05:002012-11-19T13:30:08.235-05:00Ladybug update!
My daughter, Ava, received a gift...Ladybug update! <br />My daughter, Ava, received a gift at least 3 years ago - one of those big ladybugs that light up a kid's room. We used to use it every night at bedtime, until about a year and a half ago, when the batteries died, and the screws were in so tightly that I stripped them, and so the ladybug has been tucked away on a shelf, pretty much ignored since.<br />Now, keeping in mind how much Ty has been thought of, and spoked of in our house (AND keeping in mind that I've never mentioned the ladybug references to my kids - pbly b/c I haven't seen any).. <br /><br />Then, out of the blue, a few nights ago, my daughter asked me to take the ladybug down so she could put it in her baby brother's room. I told her "remember? It doesn't work anymore - we couldn't change the batteries"...she asked if she could try anyway, so (of course, in typically mom style) I said "sure, go for it"... and she did... AND IT LIT UP! <br />I couldn't believe it! At first I figured there must have been just a tiny bit of juice left in the batteries, but sure enough - our ladybug has been lighting up for us every night!!! <br />How could I NOT see this as a sign? :)<br /><br />Constant thoughts and prayers for you all from down here :) Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09321670738445567061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-68720399125294203312012-11-19T13:23:48.975-05:002012-11-19T13:23:48.975-05:00I agree! I agree! Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09321670738445567061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-52614015644842825992012-11-19T13:14:47.845-05:002012-11-19T13:14:47.845-05:00Cindy~
So happy that you, Lou & Gavin got to ...Cindy~<br /><br />So happy that you, Lou & Gavin got to enjoy a fun filled weekend with friends! Ty was there with you to in spirit. You will never forget anything about Ty and if you ever do (which I doubt) you always have this blog to go back to and just like a picture your memory will come back. But something in me says that you will never forget anything about Ty! God Bless you guys!!!! May each day get easier for you and may Ty visit you in your dreams real soon!!! xoxooxoxooxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-51861709945309166182012-11-19T12:43:35.860-05:002012-11-19T12:43:35.860-05:00God Bless all of you for finding the strength to g...God Bless all of you for finding the strength to get through everyday! I truly don't know how you do it but you inspire the rest of us with your courage. Cindy you should be a writer, you express yourself so destinctively. Thanks for sharing your story and beautiful pictures of your precious boys! They are truly priceless!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-30985797559413765412012-11-19T12:27:27.122-05:002012-11-19T12:27:27.122-05:00Reading you explain Ty's perfect little body i...Reading you explain Ty's perfect little body is so beautiful and heartbreaking. It makes me cry thinking about all he went through...and what you went through over the past two years. I can't begin to imagine the pain you have endured. <br /><br />Thank you for sharing Ty's beautiful baby picture. That child even looked like an angel as an infant. I love everything that you have shared with us about Ty...sometimes I think he was just too perfect for this world. <br /><br />Thinking of you always and sending love to you, Ty, Gavin and Lou. Dawnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-11284213703527957402012-11-19T10:49:07.674-05:002012-11-19T10:49:07.674-05:00I have never been in the position of losing a belo...I have never been in the position of losing a beloved child so I cannot say I know about the signs you see from Ty. But I absolutely believe that if it helps you deal with the unbelievable grief you are enduring then you believe away. Whatever it takes to get through this most difficult time. You and Lou are just amazing people and parents and my thoughts and prayers are sent your way for peace. <br /><br />PS. Gavin is just so adorable!Barbaranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7797283590776177236.post-11073689582777628102012-11-19T10:26:12.761-05:002012-11-19T10:26:12.761-05:00Love the picture of Baby Ty! And Gavin is adorabl...Love the picture of Baby Ty! And Gavin is adorable as usual in his Spiderman costume! I know it is not the same as him being physically here, but I hope feeling Ty's presence is comforting to you. Love will always keep him close to you, and I pray that Ty will come to you in your dreams soon. Sounds like you had a nice weekend, glad that you were able to get out and have a little fun!Christine Dnoreply@blogger.com